Meeting and enjoying recreational sexual relationships with other like-minded seekers of erotic fun is not as easy as some people might imagine.
On the web there are numerous adult contact sites but only rarely do the chat rooms and contact pages lead to successful meetings, let alone real group sex activity.
The main reason for this stems from the very nature of Internet adult contacting. It attracts those people who fantasize about swinging, group sex and no strings sex in all forms, but the majority have neither the ability or circumstances to see it through. As soon as these people are faced with a real opportunity to attend an adult party or actually arrange a liaison with someone, they pull out. Many of those who actually make the effort to meet find it impossible to perform when the big moment arrives.
So who are the real swingers and how do they meet other uninhibited seekers of adult fun? The actual number of people who regularly enjoy recreational sex is actually very small. They are people who attend professionally run clubs or parties and build their own network of contacts over considerable periods of time of involvement in the adult party and contact scene. They are people who, when contact is made with them will ask lots of questions about experience and commitment, mainly to save themselves another wasted meeting.
At most clubs and parties there is evidence of this, especially if single guys are allowed in. Many of them and also couples will wander round, usually dressed, only looking at what others are getting up to, but with little intention of joining in. Why? Mainly because their fantasies have suddenly been turned into a reality challenge that they can't face up to. Some will have excuses that vary from the sublime to the ridiculous, but for most it will always be that the fantasy is better than reality, whether they admit it or not.
The girls sometimes have justifiable excuses, especially if they were talked into going by their partner and didn't want to be there in the first place. Performing in semi public places is never as easy as many may think, even though it should be obvious that everyone who attends at these venues is supposedly there for the same reason.
