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Jargon	5:58 viernes, 21^st octubre, 2005 Is for couples and has been since it was first named. More recently singles have begun calling themselves swingers, but they really cannot be. So what are they? Single people looking mostly for no strings sex. Not Swingers!!! Swingers do partner swapping!!! We raise this subject due to our continueing bad experiences with single guys who don't really know what they are looking for, but will basically go for anything that may give them a thrill. Yesterday we had what we now can say is our last go at meeting a single guy from any website. Couldn't even raise a hard on, no matter how hard Gloria tried. Supposing you rush off and look at our profile at this point and note how old we are, but he was the same age as Gloria. Of course it was his first time with a couple and many guys don't ever get the chance that he and quite a few other waste of timers have had in the last few years. So having read the complaints of other couples on this forum who have had similar experiences, all we can say is let's take swinging back to it's roots and have a rethink. I (Jose) had my first 'swinging' experience in 1960, so know a fair bit about the scene and changes that have happened over the years. Please post sensible comments on this subject if you have any, or send your thoughts to our personal box. Unlike some, we read them regularly. Jose & Gloria
warmandfriendly	9:03 viernes, 28^th octubre, 2005 Re: Swinging I totally agree and feel the same as Gloria!! Most guys think they can do it until they are faced with the opportunity, then fall flat, or at least their equipment does, LOL. I reply to everyone who mails me, but a lot are put off because I ask them too many questions about their experience. Have never yet met a first timer that could manage to get it done. I now only meet people who are recommended or made genuine on this site, unless thay can convince me some other way. Spanish, french and german guys have the same problem, so I feel that it has nothing to do with nationality. Luckily there is usually at least one guy at the club who can manage, even if it's only my partner!! Joanna
rhonda	12:06 sábado, 29^th octubre, 2005 Re: Swinging Hi Further to your post We are a couple from Kent we have had one couple exp and the rest have been single men There is a 16 year age gap between us and this seems to put off a couple.Some times they dont even bother to reply to say thanks but no thanks it really cheeses me off.We are continually e-mailed by single blokes and the one or two we have meet have been really nice guys maybe we should try Spain R and J
yourpleasure	5:57 domingo, 30^th octubre, 2005 Re: Swinging Just would like to say as a single male who has had a number of couple encounters over the years that SINGLE FIRST TIMER GUYS I would advice going to a swingers party first before you try out a solo mission with a couple. The FANTASY is somewhat different to the reality first time round, you could sit down all day watching porno imagining yourself in a threesome but actually doing it for the first time is a different reality and takes some guts, so i agree with couples wanting experience only. I say this as i admit to my first ever couples encounter around 10 years ago being a total disaster. I can look back and laugh now but first time round wasnt so funny. Imagine guys,, an ex porno star and her hubby, beatifull siurroundings every thing set and only for me to perform. I had been building my self up for this one and was imagining how this will be the mother of all sessions. Dam did i flop, was so daunted by the idea cuoldnt rise if it was a matter of life or death, it dawned on me that ive been fantasising and this is now for real. plus i had to stay overnight as had no transport. I just wanted the ground to swallow me up. I almost gave up but someone took me to a nice easy going party with many couples and no pressure, This is the ideal way to start out guys so that you dont waste your time or more importantly the couples time. Im now and old hat at this game but have been honest here as i have had my fair share of couples wasting my time getting to the meeting point and then not turning up ect, i suppose in many cases they may be first timers who get cold feet just before a meet. The essential thing is to really know wht you want and to understand what you are getting into. swinging ect takes a certain type of mindset so be sure you have that mind set and dont waste peoples time Peace
Jargon	9:31 miércoles, 2^nd noviembre, 2005 Re: Swinging To yourpleasure, You have our hearty congratulations for the most sensible post we have ever read on this subject!! We have made a copy of you letter and will be sending it to some of the guys who have wasted our time and those who maybe just about to. It's never easy the first time for anyone, not even couples, but especially not easy for singles. You deserve lots of replies and the chance to make lots of people happy with your tongue and dong! Jose & Gloria

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