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Hi everyone. Me and my girlfriend are very very new to the adult scene. We enjoy a healthy sex life but would like to try new things. One thing we are looking into is having another couple watch us have sex in the same room and then if this goes well possibly some filmingpictures to take place, but..... We have not got any idea on how to go about turning this fantasy into a reality. All suggestions and advice would be great. And appreciated. Looking forward to hearing wot you all have to say. Thanks and hopefully speak soon

advice please

Is there anyone that can advise us on how to go about the things mentioned in our earlier post. like we said we are keen to get started but just need some help to get going.

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if you want to get contacts you need to have photos in your profile - it doesn't have to show your face but something is better than nothing - also try adding soft swapping into keywords as a lot of members enjoy those types of meets and you'll get more looking at your profile

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well i think you need first to talk together about this thoroughly, i mean you need to set rules and regulations regarding what you expect and what is permissible and what's not. also important that you both put your concerns and talk about them, feel comfortable about them. once all of these are sorted out, i think you need to find someone you can trust and they respecttrustcare for you, and have a lust for (most preferably someone that you both fantasize, if not, make sure the wife is actually fantasizing about them at least) then prepare a nice evening with dinner or go out for a while and talk to them about your voyeuristic thoughts or talk in general about voyeurism and see what they think about it... if you all click and on the same page, dont rush it yet! prepare another visit for them at home and make a timeline scene of what to happen next. something like before dinner being served the wife excuses to go get the food off the oven, then calls for hubby to help her out! they get a bit late, so probably one of the visitors will call for you to check up on you, while u dont reply, after couple of times they certainly will come into the kitchen, they'd better be seeing you just past foreplay ;)

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thanx for the advise. all sounds like good advise aswell. do you think strangers would be better than friends" or the other way around. just got to try and figure what the best route will be as we both unsure wether we want friends to be involved.

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Well in my opinion u need to be very careful with friends being involved, there are a lot of stuff that might happen like jealousy, missing respect over time, complications in public events, losing friends, etc...

So id go with strangers that you build a relation first then invite into your roombed

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That is a very good point. Never thought of it like that. We dnt seem to be getting much responsr from our profile tho. Not sure if we have done it right or maybe need to add more. Again suggestions would be great

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well it's pretty hard for people to get you serious without any trials from your side to appear as real couple! try putting couple of pictures (not really nude or hot pix) but pix of you both in a public place, maybe cover a bit of your faces (if you are fearing exposure) put some private pix that people you build trust with over time can see, then you can start building a trust list around yourself.. try participating in the chat rooms, really helps a lot.. hope this helps a bit